![]() Am I wrong for wanting to see him? Why would my husband not trust me, if he knows it's not like that and that I have NEVER given him any reason not to trust me, ever. (Everyone asks, so I always put that out there). Most people have heard of my friend, but no, I am not saying who he is because he is a very private person. He also wants to meet my very elderly grandfather, who is like my favorite relative and happens to love my friend and would love to get the chance to meet him. I want to be able to give him a hug, go to the shooting range with him, and just hang out for a couple days. I talked with DH today about it, he forbid it, and now I'm sitting here mad, but feeling guilty because I started crying and feel like I played the girl card even though I didn't mean to, I couldn't help it. He swears he is fine with our friendship and trusts that I could never be anything but platonic with him, if we had met and I wasn't married and he wasn't married, (to different people at the time but just the same), maybe it would have been different, but it wasn't and now we could never look at each other that way. I want to go see him so badly!!! My husband is giving me every excuse on why I can't go, even though he goes six hours out of town once a month to go fishing. He is coming within like 4 hours of my home for work, near where I have family. He lives far away so it's mostly a long distance friendship, I don't see him often, which is where the problem comes in. She's as inked as he is, and a freaking model. His wife and I are friends, she's awesome. Muscular, tattooed everywhere, a serious badass with a job to match. I need to say, however, that he is a publicly known person, attractive, "my type" where my husband isn't my normal type. It is completely platonic, nothing between us. DH and I have known each other our whole lives. I have had a friend, a male friend, for fifteen or so years. ![]() I love my husband more than anything and he is more important to me than this person to anyone other than my offspring. Ok, so I know that some if not all of you are going to say I am in the wrong here.
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